
I Felt Like the Biggest Imposter!
I felt like the biggest imposter!
Here I was wanting to help women whose lives and purpose are being derailed and held back by insecurity, and I was being deluged with the demons of insecurity - perfectionism and procrastination. I wanted to reach the most women possible in the shortest time possible but it felt impossible given my current workload.
But wait! Isn’t that what community and support is about?
I told insecurity “GOODBYE!!!” and reached out to my Sista, Crystal Daye, the author of ‘Dear Insecurity: A Woman’s Guide To Release Self-Doubt And Boldly Activate Your God-Given Gifts’.
I had recently bought Crystal’s book on Kindle and it was just what the doctor ordered for women afflicted with insecurity (or would order if she knew about it LOL).
I met Crystal years ago when she spoke at an event for women - “Queen, Straighten Your Crown’, and subsequently at another event for women leaders - ‘Signature Women’ where she was promoting her very first book.
A couple years later I invited her to be interviewed along with other guest experts, at my online retreat - ‘Recharge and Reset: Maximize Your Potential, Fulfill Your God-Given Purpose’. She spoke then on insecurity which was the topic of the book she was about to launch shortly thereafter. We have also both been part of a faith-based community for entrepreneurs - The Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur.
Fast forward to now. I thought, why not tackle this mammoth task through collaboration with Crystal, and the platform of my newly formed Recharge & Reset Community for women of faith. I did not have time for a full blown retreat with several guest experts, yet the call was so strong to do this now!
Crystal accepted my invitation and we had over 50 registants, and 47 participants at our FREE Recharge and Reset workshop: ‘Goodbye Insecurity’ on Wednesday, September 21.


Can you relate to any of these?
Low Self Esteem Self-limitation
Feelings of inadequacy
Comparison
Procrastination
Self-criticism
Small thinking
Fear of success
Fear of failure
Always seeking validation
Constant people-pleasing
Feelings of unworthiness
Feeling guilty for your successes
Well, if so, you may be struggling with INSECURITY. It’s time to tell insecurity Goodbye!!!!
If you want to do like Crystal and me and say Goodbye to insecurity, but you could not be there on Wednesday, as a subscriber to my Weekend Reset blog you can access a copy of the video recording. Just let me know you would like to have it by indicating in the comments or emailing me, and I will send a private link to you.
YOUR WEEKEND RESET TIP
Get and read a copy of Crystal’s book: ‘Dear Insecurity: A Woman’s Guide To Release Self-Doubt And Boldly Activate Your God-Given Gifts’ from any of our major bookstores or Amazon. Trust me, you will NOT regret it.
If you would like to maximize your potential and fulfill your God-given purpose, and want to check out how being a part of my Recharge and Reset community for women of faith can help you do just that, book a FREE, no obligation Coaching session with me HERE.
Sharon Carruthers, the author of the ‘Weekend Reset’ blog is a child of God, wife, mother of 3, a Human Resource Management and Development Consultant, and owner of the firm, ‘Bold Consulting’. She is sharing from her own experiences for women who are holding back, or living on autopilot; who believe their identities are in others and, or in what they do; or who neglect themselves while sacrificially taking care of others. She hopes that together Christian women can embrace the future with the beautiful hope of transformation one step at a time.